Slip Away
Relationship Slipping Away, Save It Fast
Relationship Slipping Away, Save It Fast
by Schfi Douce
How To Save A Relationship Joe is a workaholic and Jen feels he doesn’t spend enough time with her. Jen is dedicated to their children and spends a great deal of time meeting their needs, but Joe feels she doesn’t spend any time meeting his needs. Do you think this relationship can be saved? Is this relationship doomed to fail? Let take a look at how we can go about saving a relationship.
Couples stay together for many of the wrong reasons. Staying together because of convenience is just lazy. Staying together for the children, although honorable it is not enough. Both parties must be willing to make a commitment to saving the relationship to make it last.
The question has to be asked,” Is this relationship worth saving?” A great percentage of relationships can be saved if both parties are willing to put forth the effort to do so, if they come together and agree to make it work. If one of the parties has lost the will to try any longer there is little that can be done.
An important step in how to save a relationship is to get to the true problem or problems in the relationship and get them out in the open. Many time a symptom of a problem in a relationship can be mistaken for the true problem. Lets take adultery. Although adultery may be a good reason for a relationship to fail, adultery could be just a symptom of another problem such as the lack of intimacy. You could prevent another affair with guilt but, if the problem of intimacy is not resolved then some other problem could arise, maybe porn. You see, it is so important to take a good hard look at what the true problem is in the relationship in order to save it. Make a plan to tackle the problem together.
A simple gesture of holding your partners hand while listening to their concerns is a great way to show you are committed to making a positive change in your relationship and really helps to start the reconnecting process. If you partner wants to discuss a subject that is upsetting to you, know that they are trying to improve things in your relationship not upset you. With a commitment from both of you to save your relationship you can now put together an action plan to work on the issues that got you to this point. Stick to your plan and work each day to renew your relationship.
Studies have shown that the couples that keep dating though out their relationship, stay together longer and are happier for it. That being said, make a date night. Take turns coming up with new ideas on how to spend you time together, just the two of you. If a weekly date night doesn’t work for you, set aside a small window of time each day to communicate to your partner.
Never quite, remember saving a relationship can be a lengthy process. Your relationship didn’t go south over night, it took time to grow apart and it’s going to take time to get that back. Understand that there are going to be bumps it the road. If you make a commitment to deal with the issues together as they come, there will be smooth sailing in the not to distant future.
This is just one of the powerful techniques you can find in “The Magic of Making Up Review”. Visit Schfi Douce’s web site www.exbacklove.com and get your free copy of She Dumped Me and I Want Her Back and many more articles on relationship advice.
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This is just one of the powerful techniques you can find in “The Magic of Making Up Review”. Visit Schfi Douce’s web site www.exbacklove.com and get your free copy of She Dumped Me and I Want Her Back and many more articles on relationship advice.
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