Doris Day
Divorce Should Never Be The First Choice
Imagine this situation. There is a party. Boy meets girl. They start to talk about this and that. They talk for a while and all return to their respective homes once the party is over. But, the boy and girl cannot forget each other and they keep reminiscing their meeting over and over again.
The two meet each other again accidentally. They go out for awhile and then find themselves to be good friends. Love slowly blossoms and the two decide to get married. Bare in mind that they feel they’re destined to be together despite only seeing the brighter portions of each others’ faces. A marriage between two people will take place with the couples elders and friends giving them blessings and wishing them well.
The two people are happy and very excited and don’t want to wait to be alone, away from the watching people. After a long, wonderful honeymoon, it’s time to go home again. Both of them have are working, have a small home and things could not have worked out better than this. They are so happy that when they see any divorced couple, they cannot believe that how things go sore between two people in love. As it stands now, divorce is an unfavorable word for them.
A mixture of fun, laughter and mirth are complementary and lead to an enriching and full life. One day, the wife returns home late from work, only to find that her husband is already home. He is upset that she is late and they have a small argument where she states that she did not say anything when he was late. Slowly but surely, the problems are solved and everthing is OK again. You find that this is just the start of it all.
Days pass by and there are more arguments between the couple over minor issues and more insinuations. Right now, the wife is pregnant and concerned about whether she will still have a career once the baby comes. The baby arrives and their world changes. Everything revolves around the baby for the wife now and the husband is not taking any responsibility. Arguments are more frequent everday as the wife desires to work again and a nanny is appointed for the baby.
There are lots of differences that begin to show up between them, and neither wants to be the one to take any blame or to see the reason. The career minded husband is not ready to share the household work and this added responsibility is difficult for the wife. The baby is in definite need of attention from the parents. The couple cannot stand to see each other anymore, and their love seems to have died. All they want now is divorce and they would not hear of any other alternative. Friends and well wishers try to intervene and resolve the misunderstanding but all in vain. The arising problem will be ego, an ugly reality that’s sure to interfere.
Did this need to happen? Could they not have resolved their difference amicably? They would have been able to, but only if they had managed to see reason and thought with a cool head. Children are born from the love of two people, and no child should have to suffer under any circumstance. No marriage on rocks is beyond redemption, especially, if there is no case of violence or infidelity. Every couple should try to sort out the differences as much as possible instead of trying to go separate ways, legally. Divorce should be last resort when all other amicable solutions fail.
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Doris Day – Dream A Little Dream of Me
